Alya is 11 month old, fourth week...

another one week to go... u go dear... go alya go alya... my baby is almost 1 year old... MasyaAllah... setahun sudah... perasaan ngilu, ngeri masa masuk OT dlu x hilang lg... dah setahun rupanyer... sekejap je anak mommy dh setahun...

2010 ney... mommy akan sedaya upaya keep track development alya... xmo miss lg mcm dlu2... miss dlm blog la... walaupun sebenarnyer mommy and especially daddy... mmg keep track development alya... every month jumpa paed... 2 tempat okey... government + private hospital..

next week mommy ngn daddy plan nak amik cuti... 13 hb... hari jab alya... appointment dlm kol 3.30ptg... so pg tu.. nak buat small party utk alya... kt school dier... just cutting cake ceremony jer... as long ada gmbr utk dicapture... utk dia tgk bila dh besar nanti...

bila dah almost setahun ney... alya dh bnyk berdikari sndri... most of her time... she spend with her toys, watching tv.. her favorite cartoon channel... reading book with her own way... walk around the house by using her walker, push n walk... crawling... or even walking... memapah2 tepi dinding... but with mommy/daddy supervision la kan... development dia pun on track... dier dh boleh berdiri, mencangkung, membongkokkan badan, duduk dgn sendrinyer... bila mommy nak pakai baju pun... dier dh faham... dh boleh hulurkan tangan or kaki... tp mommy still struggle la nak pakaikan baju dier... susahnyer... berpusing2...
alya still x boleh berjalan sndri... tp bila mommy pegang tgn dier sblah... dia dh boleh jalan dgn laju... cuma x berani nak jalan sndri jer... bila makan... alya dh boleh suapkan makanan dier sndri... walaupun berterabur... satu rumah... but still satu pencapaian... sesetengah budak xleh buat lg... alya juga boleh minum air dgn straw... senang la mommy... pegng cawan pun dh boleh... cuma kena berhati2... sbb dia suka bermain... dicampak cawan tu... abes tumpah air...

since alya 4 bulan lg... mommy mmg kenalkan alya dgn buku... she loved books so much... mcm daddy dier jugak... kalu tgk gmbr dlm buku tu... mmg x ngelip mata... serius jer scan setiap page yg dier bukak... alya pun boleh faham sepatah dua ayat mommy... do n don't... kalu suruh amik brg tu... mtk dua tiga kali... dia akan amik.. kalu ajar sepatah dua perkataan... dier dh boleh ikut sikit2... kalu ajar tindakan... kena sabar... dlm sehari... INsyaAllah dier boleh ikut...

Alhamdulillah... anak mommy...dah nak setahun.... AMIN...

Anjakan Paradigma - curi n3 kak wati...

Dari Dato Dr Fadzillah Kamsah untuk suami isteri:

1. Rumahtangga banyak hancur jika pasangan x bertakwa.. bila kita bersolat, Allah turun hidayah untuk pasangan

   so daddy... kita kena usaha lebih dlm bab ney... amalkan balik jemaah mcm dlu2... pas solat cium mommy, hug mommy, bermaaf-maafan, hugging is loving dear... lately kita missed benda2 ney... solat sndri2 sudah... alasan alya xde yg jaga... kalu solat... alya dok duduk atas sejadah... golek2... kita leh buat jemaah time subuh... jgn bg alasan, huhuhuh

2. Pegang tangan isteri dgn kasih sayang sebelum tidur, dosa dosa kecil luruh di celah celah jari.. Dan mengerat kan kasih sayang to each other

   kita dh salah rutin ney... daddy dok pegang kaki mommy sbb nak letak minyak tiap2 malam... huhuhuh pasni kita amalkan ye sayang...time tdo kena sama la.. ney mommy dh tdo kol 10... daddy lak tdo kol 12... mcmner nak pgg tgn ney..

3. Suami isteri kena cute, isteri kena cute utk suami, suami kena cute utk isteri

   daddy mmg dh super cute... bangun tdo, masa tdo pun cute... mommy je dh jd super selebet... bgun tdo ngn rambut kembang semangkuk, pakai baju besar2, selebet jer... so 2010 mommy nak berubah... no more selebet2... akan ku kembalikan kegemilanganku... hikhikhik...

4. Banyak berbicara, jgn pura pura..- berborak ker?

   dulu daddy bnyk benda nk share ngn mommy.. sama ngn mommy gak... lately ney... kita jrg berborak... maisng2 buat hal sndri... sehari dlm sejam dua jer masa yg kami ambil utk berborak... cerita masalah... mtk nasihat... settlekan masalah yg ada... huhuhuh

5. Banyakkan bergurau - kena kelakar sikit

   ini mommy kena perbaiki... sense of humor mommy kan kurang... payah daddy nak buat lawak kt mommy...especially mommy tgh moody... mcmner nk jd kelakar ek? sbb mommy rasa mommy mmg kelakar orgnyer... daddy yg nmpk serius... hehehhe

6. Cemburu bertempat.. Cemburu tanda beriman

   cemburu? kurang kot benda ney berlaku kt we all... selalunyer yg kuat jeles ney mommy... dan bukan kt daddy pun... tp kt sekeliling mommy... cuma kalu daddy balik lmbt... mmg mommy check la mana daddy g... kalu kt office... xyahler... mommy ada cctv kt dinding2 office daddy... heheheh

7. Tidor satu selimut - tanda bermaaf maafan
   

   huhuhuhuh ney x berlaku lg bila alya lahir... sbb dier tdo tengah antara kami... so kena la tukar posisi tdo kami... alya tdo tepi pula yer sayang... xpun tdo ler kt bilik alya... dah besar kan... dh boleh tdo kt bilik sndri... nanti mommy kemas yer... hihhihih...

8. Isteri perawat suami vs versa,

   ini mmg diamalkan selalu... sbb daddy mmg manja abes kalu sakit... lembik abes.. segala2 kena jaga... amikkan air, ubat, selimut... semua la... bab pujuk makan ubat yg susah ney... mommy leh makan 5 biji ubat dlm satu masa.. daddy nak telan sebiji amik 2 gelas air... bayangkan... ehhehe thx daddy sbb tiap2 malam x missed urukan kaki mommy... dh jadi manja kekadang... x sakit pun nak mtk urutkan.. ini jer masa yg mommy rasa daddy curahkan kasih sayang daddy kt mommy... walaupun kadang2 daddy buat mcm x ikhlas... heheheh

9. Cari common interest

   semua org tau... kami ada hobby yg sama... suka jalan2 cari makan... amik2 gmbr... tp xdela jalan jauh2... duit bukan bnyk pun... as long dpt spend masa bersama... cukup la... but lately ney bila gaji mommy sangkut... tukar dh jd jalan2 cari pasal... sbbnyer bila mommy x dpt apa mommy nak beli... mommy moody... lastnyer daddy kena marah...stress then balik umah... huhuhuhuh ampun daddy...
   

10. Berdoa

    yang ney mmg kena perbaiki... bukan setakat doa keluar rumah... doa ketika solat.... setiap masa kita kena berdoa... xyah citer lebih... kita masing2 pun tahu kan...

semoga 10 amalan kt atas ney... kita boleh amalkan yer sayang... 10 amalan utk 2010.... harap2 ini adalah tahun yg BAIK utk kita... AMIN...

BUAH PISANG KAKI aka PERSIMMON FRUIT

BUAH PISANG KAKI aka PERSIMMON FRUIT

u ols tau x buah ney... lately mommy addicted ngn buat ney... thx to aunt siti yg introduced buah ney kt mommy... seminggu 5biji mommy leh abeskan... isinyer manis mcm buah ciku... kulit dier lak rangup.... bila makan... mommy dpt releasekan tensen mommy... rasa berat kepala mommy... badan ringan jer... tanpa tau apa khasiat buah ney... daddy pun dh naik bising... mkn bnyk2... cuba check khasiat buah ney... kang mcm2 penyakit lak kang....

so smlm mommy ada check pasal buah ney...

"Pisang kaki sejenis buah yang berkhasiat yang mengandungi vitamin C, glukos, sukros, fruktos dan iodin, bernilai tinggi dari segi perubatan. Ia amat berkhasiat dalam menurunkan tekanan darah tinggi, meningkat pengaliran darah dalam pembuluh darah koronori, mengatasi masalah sembelit dan meredakan sedu. Sungguhpun buah ini disebut pisang dan berwarna kuning tetapi bentuk serta isinya tidak menyerupai pisang-pisang biasa yang lain. Buah yang berbentuk bulat, berisi ranggup dan berbiji ini berasal dari keluarga Ebenacea. . Serbuk putih yang terdapat pada permukaan buah pisang kaki yang kering juga manis rasanya dan mengandungi manitol, glukos dan vitamin C amat baik untuk paru-paru dan jantung"

see... bnyk khasiat buah ney... tp xleh la nak makan selalu... mahal.. sebiji cecah rm0.99... dh sama harga epal, pear alya lak... ehhehehe

p/s teringat mak ckp... yg dh dikeringkan pun sedap.. tp susah nak jumpa.. kt kedai senghe je yg ada... later kalu balik kluang... nak cr la... heheheh

My New Year Resolution

rasanyer mommy x penah cerita lg apa mommy punya new year resolution... bukan xde idea.. x tau kenapa... maybe i'm losing my MOJO in writing... bila nak start writing jer... end up mommy letak dlm draft... mcmner blog mommy nak berkembang maju... daddy pun dh start bising... 'u need some fresh ideas... mommy... jgn tulis merapu'... hmmm yela... so tahun baru ney... mommy nak start writing balik la... xmo asyik citer pasal alya, kami... balik2 alya... balik2 baper syg we all ngn alya... gmbr2 alya... mommy janji... heheheh...

so nak citer new year resolution....

1. nak kuruskan badan (63kg ----->50kg) - chaiyok alina

ni benda WAJIB tahun ney... semoga berjaya... mommy pun dh start joging balik... mlm2... selang sehari... mula2 masa ckp ngn daddy aritu... daddy gelak jer... jgn cabar... i can do it.. u know that rite daddy.... i x malu nak jogging ngn minah2 arab tu... hehehhe
isnin khamis... mommy kena puasa sunat... no more nasi lemak... no more roti canai... no more nasi penuh... only nasi diet... no more caffeine...
p/s mommy x strict sgt pasal makan... sebulan sekali nak rasa okey kot... hehehhe
kena kuruskan badan ney... sian baju2 lamaku... xmuat... huhuhuh...

2. nak mantapkan writing skill...

not just cerita merapu... tahun ney lebih berisi... mommy nak kongsi mcm2 idea/cerita/ilmu yg bnyk kt luar sana... daddy pun tiap2 ari share mcm2 cerita ngn mommy... office pun bnyk cerita... lately ney... mommy x komen pun pasal office... x sure kenapa... kalu nak dijadikan cerita... mau jd cerpen tingkatan 5... leh score A...

3. nak dpt cheque dr nuffnang

in order for me to get this.. mommy kena la jd blogger tegar... mlm jer kena online.... cari lubang/ cari kawan/ cari idea... semoga mommy berjaya... ney hobby baru mommy... blogging... jumpa kawan baru... bestnyer

4. nak start business - start with something rather than nothing

kalini nak buat busines berkaitan baby... kena kumpul duit buat MODAL... tp gaji mommy skrg lak asyik lmbt... bila la modal mommy nak cukup ney...ish...

5. kena kembalikan mood bekerja

dah lama mommy hilang mood bekerja ney... hari2 mommy doa... 'Ya Allah... kembalikan la semangatku utk bekerja.. berikan aku peluang menunjukkan kebolehanku... jauhkan aku dr kebosanan, dan sebagainyer'.... maybe keje mommy terlalu senang... "stress tau kalu keja x stress"... ada faham ayat ney???
nak cr keje lain... boleh ke dpt tpt yg fleksibel ney? senang masuk kol 9... balik kol 6... cuba pk colleague mommy yg jenis masuk lewat tu... mcmner nak keje tpt lain... masuk pun lewat... alasan balik lmbt... hmmm... ntah aaa... maybe diaorg pun dah xde mood nak dtg keje... dtg setakat nak siapkan keje yg diamanahkan jer... masing2 dh ilang mood nak bekerja...
I'm looking forward for prosperous 2010 in my career esp (please no more EL, less MC and try not to finish my AL by mid Dec and no more SOHO for 2010... semoga company mommy recover balik mcm dlu2... happy je dlu dpt gaji on-time), happy je dlu keje yg mommy buat penuh bermakna... i think i need to sit down with Mr R once again... sian dier skrg,... everything under his neck... cuba bg mommy sikit... please... u know u can trust me to do whatever u asked.. jgn bg keje2 macai lg... i bet i'm ready now to move on... stress tgk member2 lain bnyk keje n mommy still buat benda sama... so this week kalu jumpa mr R... mommy nak ckp sikit ngn dier... if things getting worse... mommy cari keje lain... Sudah!

6. ni azam biasa utk mommy2 - nak jd mommy yg terbaik utk alya...

spend lebih bnyk masa dgn dier... baby kan cepat besar... duit boleh cr... masa yg ilang bersama ank.. xleh kembali... huhuhuh

7. sama gak ngn ney sbg isteri Mr ZarinMalek -

nak jd isteri yg taat setia(ney daddy xyah risau), baik, sopan santun (bleh blah), berbudi bahasa.... xmo berleter, rajin masak (weken je tau daddy - 2010 xmo masak malam), xmo melawan ckp daddy, xmo tdo membelakangkan daddy (kena tukar posisi tpt tdo, hehehe), xmo malas2...etc...

8. spend bnyk masa lagi ngn parent

2009 ney mommy bit pentingkan diri... jarang balik kluang... jarang jenguk mak ngn ayah mommy... dlu sebelum kawin sebulan sekali mommy balik... skrg ney... 5-6 mgu sekali... so tahun ney nak balik lebih kerap lg... harap daddy faham yer... xmo bertekak pasal ney... mommy dah bnyk tutup mulut pasal ney... sebulan skali balik rembau dah kira ok... member2 lain nak jenguk kg 2-3 bulan skali pun susah... sbb apa? sbb spouse poyos la... balik kg dier jer... xmo balik kg mertua... mommy x mcm tu... so hopefully daddy faham... mommy nak jd mcm kawan2 mommy lain.. adil.. balik sebulan sekali utk setiap mertua... aci kan...

9. nak memperelokkan diri - sbb apa mommy kata mcmney.... ???

mommy bila nak tdo... atau tgh termenung dlm toilet... mommy dok terfikir... mommy ada kawan2 yg x pernah puas ngn apa dier ada... x pernah rasa cukup... selagi kawan/sesapa sajer yg dier rasa lebih dr dier... idup dier dh x berapa senang... mommy xmo jd mcmney... so mana2 kawan mommy yg rasa nak citer ngn mommy pasal org lain, pasal dier lg hebat dr si polan itu... pasal laki aku lg bagus, umah aku lg bagus, anak aku lg bagus, keje aku lg bagus... xyah ler.. mommy xmo layan... benda2 ney leh buat gaduh mommy laki bini... sbb daddy sure stress bila balik keje mommy citer pasal benda ney.... so hentikan la yer... mommy xmo dgr dah... mommy rela tertinggal kapal, xtau citer... dr dgr citer merapu mcmney...

10. Benda penting... intipati hidup - nak lebihkan amal ibadah... AMIN

hal ney... semua tau kan... so xyah citer lebih...InsyaAllah mommy akan lakukan... AMIN...

so inilah AZAM tahun baru mommy! 10 azam utk 2010 ney... InsyaAllah mommy akan lakukan... amin...

Nuffnang Friso Gold Family Day Out

Nuffnang Friso Gold Family Day Out

Time: 10am - 2pm

Date: 2nd January 2009

Vanue: Kizsports & Gym, One Utama

Special thanks to Shaolin Tiger, the official photographer of the event for some of the pictures... thx so much!

Bestnya... super duper fun and informative event...  organized by Nuffnang Malaysia and Dutch Lady Milk Industries Bhd - manufacturer of Friso Gold.

Last Saturday, we all were invited to Nuffnang Friso Gold Family Day Out at Kizsports & Gym, One Utama. The event was scheduled to start at 10am but we arrived early around 9:30am. Mommy and Daddy have been to One Utama before but that was before Alya was born :). All the shops were not opened yet and the entrances were also closed except one manned but a security officer. So... off we went to the S.O to ask for directions to Kizsports & Gym. Luckily the entrance that we go was also the on same side as Kizsports & Gym and the S.O was kind enough to turn on the escalator for us.

"Thanks, Uncle!", says Alya.

Kizsports & Gym was on the 2nd floor and when we arrived, we saw that there's a few family that have arrived already and we are like one of the first 5 i think. Hehehe. So, while waiting for the registration counter to get ready, a few snaps of Mommy, Daddy & Alya first before there's more people coming.

There's an Event Board at the front entrance too so we took a few snaps there.  It's also as a proof actually that we were actually there... hehhehe. When the registration counter was opened, we were still passionately taking a few photos of Alya and it took us a few minutes to notice that everybody has already queued for registration. Mommy then hurriedly and patiently take turn as the photos below shows.

 we got lucky... the organizer just happen to write down alya's name tag... hehehhe...

At the registration counter, all of us got a name tag and also a t-shirt for Alya to wear. It was an L-size t-shirt  for toddlers while Alya usually wears only 6-12 months size baby t-shirt. So... you can imagine how big the size for Alya is. It's like a princess with a long gown sweeping the floor. Hehehe... but thanks to the organizer too so now Alya can keep that t-shirt and can wear it until she's 6 years old! Must be a limited-limited edition then. It would be good if Mummy is a size 2 so Mummy can wear it too...kuikuikui...

After registration, we park the stroller at the entrance and join other parents in the Kizsports & Gym but we all must took off our shoes and only wear stockings . This is COMPULSORY for hygienic purposes. When we were inside, Alya was very excited seeing all her new friends playing around and can't wait to play too! We took Alya to the castle first and play peek-a-boo with her. She like it very much.....

After playing in the castle, she join her new friends playing colorful balls. She was very excited since this is a new experience for her. Before this, we never brought her to such a place. Although wearing such a big t-shirt that make her hard to move, this does not hamper her to explore and learn something new. In the meantime, Mommy and Daddy  made new friends from the blogosphere too!

After that, Alya also played with a few other toys like Jay-jay the Jet Plane and Nemo.

While we were busy playing with Alya, Daddy suddenly bump into his old friend from his university days.  Auntie Asmah came with her husband and her handsome baby boy- Rayyan. It's one of the benefit of this event, meeting new and old friends. Alya too make friend with Rayyan and ride their Poney together... Hehehe...

After that there's a briefing session around 11am. MC for the day was Mr Marcus from Nuffnang Malaysia. Then there's Mr. Nicholas also from Nuffnang Malaysia giving a welcoming speech and a representative from Dutch Lady Milk Industries Berhad saying a few words from the sponsors.

After the briefing... We all join the early fitness academy camp special for baby under the age of 3 years old. Inside the gym, we as parents are taught how to stimulate the children combining education with fun and fitness.  Then, we do some baby stimulation exercises moving our body, singing and jumping around. The facilitator also gave us a chance to play with all the obstacles inside the gym. This will help to teach Alya to hear and do instructions and also improve her body coordination. Towards the end, Alya got a chance to play with bubbles blown by the facilitator. Alya like it so much seeing the many colors like a rainbow in the bubbles.

At the end of the session,  a gentleman was chosen for being the most sporting daddy. Lucky him!

After the gym session, there's also a talk organized by the sponsors. First, there's a briefing on Child Immunity and how Friso Gold can help to increase this by a nutritionist from Dutch Lady. It was a good informative session seeing the benefits of Friso Gold in a growing up children. A quiz session was also arranged at the end of the session though we are not one of the lucky winners. Daddy tried to answer one of the questions  but he got the answer wrong. Pity Daddy... Mommy was also stressed because I couldn't get a hand on one of the prizes.

The second talk was by Ruth Liew, a renown child expert who authored several parenting books. She's also a popularly known columnist on parenting and child care in The Star. I remembered one of the question was about sharing especially a single child. This is so true for Alya. Being the only child in the family, she don't want to share her toys with other babies in school although that toy belong to other baby. Usually she will took a toy as hers and nobody can take that away from her. If it is taken away, she will cried out loud. There's no way around this but to teach Alya to share her things and tell her why we need to share.

I would say the talk was an eye opening session for us, first time parents.

Mommy and Daddy missed our lunch since Daddy was too concentrated on the talk by Madam Ruth while Mummy was accompanying Alya with other kids for her lunch. It looks like Alya love the spaghetti much like Daddy. Hehehe...

 Look at the food! So delicious!

After lunch, there's a few games arranged for the kids while waiting for the Magic show to start. The kids enjoyed the games very much as they try to collect as much goodies as they can.

Then, around 1.15pm, the session that's been waited by the kids and parents starts! It's the Magic Show by Mr Hafidz! The magics astound the kids and parents too! Mummy still can't figure out how the magician swap the dummy bird to a live one in the cages. He also showed his escapist skills like how he can untied his hand from a tightly bound rope by an audience. This really make the audience laughs especially when he can untie and tied it faster than the helper from the audience. There's a few other tricks too like the floating table, a Ribena bottle that comes out of his hands and Mummy Snacks that appear out of fire.

The moment that has been waited by the parents especially is the grand prize giving ceremony that will take a family to a 3D2N Hong Kong Disneyland package. Daddy has been to HK Disneyland before but he promised to take Mummy and Alya someday... Don't know when... There's also 10 RM100 Toys'R'Us gift vouchers to 10 selected blogs for best Pre-Event entry.

As expected Kak Ros from MomBloggersPlanet won the Grand Prize. Tahniah tahniah tahniah to Kak Ros.

the lucky winner... and i am so jeles of you all... better be me next year... hehhehe...

The event ended around 2.30pm and we don't go home empty handed. Each family got a goodies bag full of gifts from the main sponsor, Dutch Lady. We got a tin of Friso Gold, face towel, Dutch Lady Yes!, Sticky notes and etc.

Thanks to Nuffnang and Dutch Lady Friso for making such an Fun and Informative day for us!!!

We wouldn't want to miss next year's event when Alya will be 2 years old and she can actively participate in all the games.